MJ, I've got something to hold against what you said there : you are referring to homosexuality as a pure sexual behaviour, which it is not.
Let me explain myself : what you wrote clearly implied that being homosexual was the same thing as having homosexual sex. I would rather say that the latter is just one point of the former. Having sex with whoever you want, however you want, is all-so-cool, I do agree !

But being gay is not only about sex (homophobic people often refer to gays as obsessed with sex, but that's just as stupid as to state that heteros are obsessed or not by sex).
Being gay is also about choosing to live one's life with a person of the same sex (which is a decision about feeling and trust & so on, not sex), and sometimes to present oneself as a family (including raising children), etc.

Being gay, I guess, is about being sincerely convinced that one's place on earth is with that other person, which happens to be of the same sex. It is about being sincerely convinced that this is a way of *living*, not only a way of *having sex*.

Now, my point (which is mine and mine only) would be: having sex the way you want is 110% OK, but redefining family or life, that's tougher. Well. I know this path is tricky, and even worse than that. I may be awkward, but still, although I don't give a damn of the way people want to have sex, I do give a damn of the way people may want to change some basic social rules (child adoption, wedding, & so on).


PS: muffing, you can't be normal anyway - you look too much like an elf...