a few words of advice jl

invite who you want to invite, not who your family want, don't invite people just because your mother and father were invited to their sons wedding 20 years ago

i know this is horrible but make sure all children are gone from the reception by 7 as it's a long day and they will start to get cranky

if you have any second thoughts about going through with the wedding don't get married

finally remember you bf is also getting married so make sure the wedding plans include him, although most of it will be left to you
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