i had entertained the thought of eloping a couple of times, but decided against it, because my family is extremely important to me, and i want them to be a part of our special day. granted, we could get all of the legalities over and done with, and then have a ceremony later on for everyone else, but that's almost more hassle than it's worth at that point. plus, i really want my dad to walk me down the aisle!

NOC, don't worry. i've already made the boy promise not to be one of those guys that, when asked about anything to do with the wedding and planning, go "okay, whatever you want honey" and agree with everything i say. although when i made him promise that, he said "okay, whatever you want honey."

men.



pea ess: i'm with ilaekae. vera's freaking fine. if i was gay, and she was gay....well, we'd both be gay. and let's just leave it at that.

pea pea ess: darth, we'll cross that bridge when we get to it, i suppose. though i have a feeling that it will involve some leather straps and a whip.





this has been another one of jackie's pantsless adventures™. this time, without any pants.